Hope. There was a time I could not see any hope. Sometimes even now I have a tendency to feel hopeless. Depression is like a disease, and the toll it takes on you leaves permanent damage. So I can still feel the aches and pains. But I try to ignore it, not give into it.
So now I feel hope. You have to have hope. It is essential to getting better. But when youāre depressed, hope is something so far removed from your life, that it seems like an impossibility. Something you donāt know how to get, but so desperately want and need.
I just finished Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation, TMS. Itās relatively new in my area. You can Google it to find out about it and see if itās offered where you live. My insurance actually covered it. I did find it quite painful, but no pain, no gain, right? A lot of people donāt experience much discomfort but I guess I have a low tolerance threshold for pain. I canāt say I am depression free, and I canāt say that I still donāt have bad days, but Iām not lying in a dark closet curled up under a blanket wishing I were dead. Ā I donāt know how long the effects of TMS will last, I was told that I may have to have maintenance to make sure I donāt slip back into such a bad depression, but time will tell. Itās kind of scary, like being in remission, fearfully wondering if it will come back again and destroy me. And now that my head is a little clear, and I feel like I just might have a future without depression, it helps me to focus on other things. Like this blog. I want to help people because I know how it feels. Itās like seeing somebody on the side of the road thatās been in a bad wreck. Iāve been in a bad wreck too emotionally and thereās no way I can let other people struggle through that without trying to offer some sort of help.
Other things that help me when Iām really struggling with depression is praying. Iāll tell you about that in a later blog and an experience I had that I like to call my miracle. Ā Affirmations have helped a lot and mindfulness meditation. You can find all sorts of videos on YouTube. I will be talking more in depth about that in future blogs. I havenāt tried electorate conducive therapy, because Iāve heard so many negative things about it that I was a little leery.
For those of you in that dark scary place, my heart aches for you. If I could crawl in that dark closet with you and comfort you I would. Hopefully youāll find some source of comfort in this blog. I will be posting more about coping strategies soon. š